For his 4th birthday, we gave the Little Mister a superhero birthday party. This is my favorite party that I have thrown to date, probably because it's the one I put the most effort into. I guess up until now, although I wanted my kids to have a party with friends and feel special all their birthdays, I've had a hard time putting a lot of thought and time into a birthday theme that they really weren't old enough to appreciate yet. But, four was the year. The Little Mister was all about his birthday party and helped me plan and make the invitations.
It was small, we only invited four friends. It was pretty much his regular playdate buddies, plus his super sweet friend Myah, because really what is a superhero party without a Wonder Woman?
I made capes and masks for each of the kids, loosely based on several of the Justice League characters. When they arrived I gave them their capes and they got to decorate their masks (or crowns/headbands for the girls) and color their superhero pictures. I also had them tell me what they wanted their superpower to be - but only Benjamin seemed to be really interested in that. Oh well...
Next we had some superhero practice...flying (running) and jumping over tall buildings (jumping from the ottoman to the couch) and then they got a break to play while I got lunch ready. Just as we were getting ready for the cake we realized someone had come and hidden it! The newest little superheroes had to follow the clues to find the cake. They were so cute during that part, running around the house finding clues. After the cake was found a couple of them were really concerned about who took our cake. I think they wanted to find that bad guy and fight him :)
Then it was time to open presents. They were all genuinely happy to give a gift and watch the birthday boy open it - definite progress from previous years!
And now some thoughts on being four:
"What is your favorite thing about being four?"
Answer: "Playing with my friends, and being four".
He has frequently said things like "this is the first time I've been to the pool/church/gym being four, right mom?" And he tells everyone he sees that he is four now. I guess he's pretty excited about it:)
"What's your favorite color?"
Answer: "All the colors"
"Who is your best friend?"
Answer: "All my friends are my best friends"
"But do you have anyone you like to play with the most?"
Answer: "Benjamin, because he has spy toys"
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
Answer: "I told you, I haven't choosed yet!"
"What's your favorite toy"
Answer: "My silly car"
And some of my thoughts on him being four:
I really can't believe how big he has gotten and grown up. He asked for, and got, a telescope this year. Yes, an actual telescope! And he asked me for weeks if he could get one and was sooo excited when he opened it. Of course, it hasn't gotten much use yet because it needs to be dark and Brad or I have to help him, but he is so excited to learn about space and can name most of the planets and several nebulae thanks to a calendar from my parents.
And, he's over me. I mean, not completely. But, for instance, I thought he would be excited the time that I subbed in his Sunbeam class. Not so much. In fact, the second time he told me I couldn't do it until I convinced him to let me "just one more time" he said. And when he gave the prayer or read a scripture in Primary for the first time, I thought he would be nervous and want me to be there to help him. Nope. He wanted his teachers.
He asks questions ALL.THE.TIME. I'm so excited (and a little sad) for him to go to pre-school but I know he will love it. He loves to learn new things and gets so animated about it. And he is so good at making new friends. I'm glad I don't have to worry about that with him. He makes friends almost everywhere we go - and it's adorable to watch.
He is getting better at expressing emotion. I'm not sure if he is just copying things he has heard or if he genuinely understands what he is saying but yesterday he told me a) that he didn't want to go to a concert ever because he was "nervous of all the kids in a line" and b) he was "frustrated at Lucy". Also, sometimes when he doesn't like my answer, he will say "Mom, you are lying to me about that". Ouch! But at least he realizes lying is bad.
My favorite part about his birthday was overhearing him say to his friends "guys, I really love all my birthday presents" BEFORE he even opened them! So sweet.